要教育出優(yōu)秀的孩子，首先要學(xué)會建立優(yōu)秀的家庭環(huán)境
今天是第25個國際家庭日。你聽說過國際家庭日嗎？
Today is the twenty-fifth international family day. Have you ever heard of international family day?
國際家庭日是聯(lián)合國為提高各國政府和公眾對于家庭問題的認識，促進家庭的和睦、幸福和進步而設(shè)立的節(jié)日。
International family day is a festival established by the United Nations to raise awareness of family issues and promote family harmony, happiness and progress.
家庭是社會的“基本細胞”。對孩子而言，家庭就是他生活的廣闊天地。俞敏洪曾說：“一個人在18歲之前的成長過程中，家庭教育的影響占比超過60%，學(xué)校教育占30%，還有10%的影響來自社會教育。而現(xiàn)實中，很多家長完全不知道該怎么教育孩子。”
The family is the "basic cell" of society. For children, family is the vast world of his life. Yu Minhong once said: "in the process of the growth of a person before the age of 18, the impact of family education is more than 60%, school education accounts for 30%, and the influence of 10% comes from social education. In reality, many parents do not know how to educate their children at all.
想要教育出優(yōu)秀的孩子，外教建議先要給孩子建立一個良好的家庭生活環(huán)境。比如可以試著這樣：
If you want to educate outstanding children, foreign teachers suggest that we should first establish a good family living environment for children. For example, try this:
給孩子成長的空間
The space for children to grow
孩子需要自由成長的空間。如果家長常幫孩子做決定，會導(dǎo)致孩子沒有選擇，沒有思考。孩子沒有創(chuàng)新思維，就不會有太多嘗試，即使學(xué)到知識也很難舉一反三。
Children need space for free growth. If parents often help their children to make decisions, children will have no choice but to think. If children do not have innovative thinking, they will not have too many attempts, even if they learn knowledge, it is very difficult to draw inferences about it.
培養(yǎng)好習(xí)慣
Cultivate good habits
人的行為在一段時間或一些重復(fù)的經(jīng)歷后，就形成了習(xí)慣。一個好習(xí)慣，就是一筆能讓孩子享受一生的財富。所以，家長要留心細節(jié)，注意引導(dǎo)孩子，糾正孩子的壞習(xí)慣。
Human behavior is formed after a period of time or repeated experiences. A good habit is a wealth that allows a child to enjoy his life. Therefore, parents should pay attention to details, pay attention to guide children, correct children's bad habits.
對孩子進行積極期望
Make positive expectations for children
在人的心里，家人、朋友是支持力量的核心，家人、朋友的期望也更有塑造力。在遇到挫折的時候，無論是孩子，還是成人，對這種力量都非誠期待。
In the heart of a man, family and friends are the core of support, and the expectations of family and friends are more powerful. In the face of setbacks, whether children or adults, this kind of power is not sincere expectation.
尊重孩子
Respect for children
尊重孩子，把他看作一個獨立的人，尊重他的選擇、朋友等等，合理引導(dǎo)他會得到更好的成長。
Respect children, regard him as an independent person, respect his choice, friends and so on, and guide him to grow better.
家庭和父母對孩子的影響是非常重要的。一個孩子在外面表現(xiàn)不好，受批評時會有人說“家教不好”。由此可見，身為父母一定要以身作則，給孩子樹立一個良好的榜樣，學(xué)做一個有智慧的父母。
The influence of family and parents on children is very important. When a child is not performing well outside, when criticized, someone will say "bad family education". Thus, as a parent, we must set an example and set a good example for our children to learn to be a wise parent.
