外教老師為什么招孩子喜歡?
外教老師為什么招孩子喜歡?
Why does the teacher teach the child to like?
夏令營結(jié)束,去機(jī)場接兒子,兒子因為要和外教老師分別,正情緒低落眼角帶淚,而且不止兒子一人如此,我發(fā)現(xiàn)周圍孩子,尤其是女孩子的眼圈,都是紅紅的,正對外教老師戀戀不舍地依依惜別。那個年輕的外教老師,更是不顧自身教師形象,張開雙臂,摟著兒子等諸多同學(xué),眼淚流得比學(xué)生還要稀里嘩啦……
The end of the summer camp, go to the airport to meet his son, son because teachers and foreign teachers respectively, positive mood eyes with tears, and more than one son so I found around the children, especially girls eyes are red, foreign teachers are unable to part to parting don't. The young teacher, is the image of teachers regardless of their own, with open arms, hugging the son and other classmates, tears than students also splinters......
學(xué)校帶隊的老師,見了也忍不住感嘆,現(xiàn)場跟我們這些家長吐槽:“這幫學(xué)生平時見了我們本校老師,有的恨不得還繞道走,可在夏令營里,見了外教老師卻總是有說有笑,就連晚上都粘著外教老師不放,臨別不舍得分開不說,還都個個傷心流淚……想想我們都教他們好幾年,感情還比不上外教老師相處的短短半個月的深!
The school led the teacher to see, can not help but sigh, we live with these parents Tucao: "this help students see our school teacher usually, some wish also made a detour in the summer camp, see the teacher was always laughing and talking, even the night stick teachers on parting do not want to leave without saying, are all sad tears...... Think that we have taught them for several years, the feelings of the teacher than not to get along just half a month's deep!
一石激起千層浪,身邊的家長也紛紛跟著應(yīng)和。晨晨媽媽說:我兒子參加夏令營,碰到的每個老外教師,他都特別喜歡,他說平時交流,外教說得最多的不是學(xué)習(xí)而是如何玩,而且還身體力行帶著你玩,比你所能想象的還要會玩,每次他玩得都好放松好開心的。外教老師給人的感覺就是,他是真的特別享受玩的樂趣。
A stone arouses thousand layer wave, the parents also have to follow the. Chen mother said: my son to participate in the summer camp, met every foreigner teacher, his special love, he said the usual foreign exchange, said most of the study but not how to play, but also personally take you to play, than you can imagine will play, every time he had a good relaxed happy the. The teacher gives a person the feeling is that he is really special to enjoy the fun of playing.
洋洋爸爸聽了感慨道:可咱們的老師呢?潛意識里總有一日為師終身為父的想法,無形就拉開了距離和輩分,你想,老師老端著,孩子咋往跟前湊?難道自討沒趣?
Yang Yang dad listened to emotion way: but our teacher? The subconscious mind there is always a teacher for a day is a father for life idea, invisible it apart and seniority, you want to end a child, the old teacher, how to get him? Don't trouble?
我補(bǔ)充道:我兒子曾經(jīng)告訴我,外教老師就沒有師道尊嚴(yán)這種概念,他們的觀念就是做真實的自我,我是學(xué)生的朋友,甚至是好朋友,我們是平等的,我不需要鎮(zhèn)住你,只需要你喜歡我,我也喜歡你,而且,那種喜歡是哥們樣的感覺,與身份年齡無關(guān)。
I added: my son told me that there is no such concept of teacher the teacher's dignity concept is, they do a real self, I am a student friend, even good friends, we are equal, I don't need to stop you, you only need to love me, I also like you, and that love is a man like, has nothing to do with the identity of the age.
帶隊老師解釋說,我們也知道“親其師信其道”,學(xué)校里就有外教老師,我也承認(rèn)外教興趣廣泛,動手能力強(qiáng),凈出新花招,能博得孩子眼球,沒老師的架子,能放低身段和孩子一起瘋,特別注重人文性,培養(yǎng)孩子們思考和創(chuàng)新的方式,可是……
When the teacher explained, "we also know that the pro division the word", our school will have foreign teachers, I have to admit foreign interest, strong hands, net new tricks to win the child eye, not the teacher's shelf, can lower the figure and the children together, a special focus of humanity cultivate children, thinking and innovative ways, but......
這時,旁邊聽了許久的一個年輕老師,忍不住插言說:關(guān)鍵是體制內(nèi)和體制外的區(qū)別,外教搞創(chuàng)新教學(xué),周圍不乏贊成和支持,即使偶有差池,學(xué)校和家長也都選擇寬容諒解,換了國內(nèi)教師,你試試?待遇絕對不可同日而語的!
At this time, next to listen to a young teacher for a long time, could not help saying: the key is inserted between the system and outside the system, teachers engage in innovation teaching, no lack of approval and support, even if the occasional mistake, the school and the parents also choose to forgive you, try for the domestic teachers? The treatment is absolutely cannot be mention in the same breath!
帶隊老師深有同感地說:主要還是高考關(guān)系到孩子的一生幸福,老師輕易不敢越雷池,只能選擇循規(guī)蹈矩,成功還好,萬一失敗,無法面對殷殷期盼多年的家長和學(xué)生,所以,只能小心為上。我們的教師太循規(guī)守矩了,都不敢越雷池半步。
Led the teacher said sympathetically: the main entrance is relation to the child's life happiness, the teacher easily discouraged, can only choose too observant of conventional standards. success okay, in case of failure, unable to face the Yanyinqipan years of parents and students, therefore, can only be. Our teacher is too follow rules, dare not deviate.
遇到好老師的確是孩子一生的幸運,好老師就應(yīng)該不阻礙每位學(xué)生的發(fā)展。其實,我們的老師都很敬業(yè)、任勞任怨,但我們總是忍不住把學(xué)生當(dāng)成考試機(jī)器,忍不住把考高分當(dāng)成是唯一目標(biāo),上課如果不講那些死知識,就覺得對不起學(xué)生。在這點上,外教就沒有如此的經(jīng)歷和壓力,所以,孩子們才都喜歡放得開教學(xué)的外教。
Good teacher is really a child's life, good teachers should not hinder the development of each student. In fact, our teachers are very dedicated and hard working, but we always can not help the students as a test machine, could not resist the test scores as the only goal of the class, if you do not speak those dead knowledge, students feel sorry. At this point, the foreign teachers have no such experience and pressure, so, the children are like to put on the teaching of foreign teachers.