幼兒英語(yǔ)外教給父母育兒小建議

父母是孩子成長(zhǎng)過(guò)程中最重要的人。同時(shí)也在孩子的教育問(wèn)題上扮演著重要的角色。俗話說(shuō)“身教勝于言教”。要想教育出優(yōu)秀的孩子，父母首先要做好榜樣。

Parents are the most important people in their children's growth. At the same time, it also plays an important role in the education of children. As the saying goes, "teaching is better than teaching." In order to educate excellent children, parents should be a good example.

雖然父母扮演如此重要的角色，但并不是每一對(duì)父母都擅長(zhǎng)兒童教育。經(jīng)常有父母向我們的外教老師訴苦，說(shuō)現(xiàn)在的孩子越來(lái)越不好教育。面對(duì)家長(zhǎng)們的束手無(wú)策，幼兒英語(yǔ)外教老師常常會(huì)給出一些細(xì)節(jié)性的建議，今天在此分享給大家，希望對(duì)在教育孩子方面有煩惱的家長(zhǎng)帶來(lái)幫助。

Although parents play such an important role, not every parent is good at children's education. Parents often complain to our foreign teachers, saying that children are getting worse and less educated. In the face of parents' helpless, children English foreign teachers often give some detailed suggestions, which I would like to share with you today, hoping to help parents who have trouble in educating children.

不要給孩子過(guò)度的保護(hù)

Do not give children excessive protection

關(guān)心孩子是父母的本能，但如果“過(guò)度保護(hù)”，就容易剝奪孩子探索的樂(lè)趣，也容易讓他變得神經(jīng)敏感，膽小怕事。

Take care of the children is the parents' instinct, but if "over protection", it is easy to explore children deprived of the fun, but also easy to let him become nervous, timid and overcautious.

不要過(guò)分嚴(yán)厲，避免“破壞性”的批評(píng)

Don't be too strict to avoid "destructive" Criticism

孩子童年時(shí)期的心靈是極度敞開(kāi)的，父母如果用諷刺挖苦的語(yǔ)言批評(píng)孩子，容易使他產(chǎn)生消極自我暗示，不利于孩子的心理健康。孩子犯錯(cuò)誤家長(zhǎng)要進(jìn)行教育，但也要把握分寸并注意言行。生活在暴怒、斥責(zé)、謾罵環(huán)境中的孩子，很容易學(xué)習(xí)父母的“暴力”行為。

Children's heart in childhood is extremely open. If parents criticize children with sarcastic language, it is easy for them to produce negative self suggestion, which is not conducive to children's mental health. Children who make mistakes should be educated, but they should also take care of them and pay attention to their words and deeds. Children living in an enraged, reprimand and abusive environment are easy to learn from their parents' "violence".

不用“比較”來(lái)刺激孩子

Don't use "comparison" to stimulate the child

經(jīng)常拿親戚朋友家的孩子跟自己的孩子作比較，看似“激勵(lì)”孩子，其實(shí)會(huì)傷害孩子的自尊心，別讓他生活在“別人家孩子”的陰影下。

Comparing children with their friends and family often with their children, it seems that encouraging children will hurt their self-esteem, and do not let him live in the shadow of others' children. .

善于發(fā)掘孩子的優(yōu)點(diǎn)，允許孩子自己做決定

Be good at exploring the advantages of a child and allow the child to make a decision on its own.

發(fā)現(xiàn)孩子的優(yōu)點(diǎn)，告訴他什么地方做的很棒，而不是揪住孩子的缺點(diǎn)不放。這樣孩子才不會(huì)覺(jué)得自己一事無(wú)成，更有前進(jìn)的動(dòng)力。

That child's strengths, tell him what place do good, rather than dwelling on the shortcomings of the child not to put. So that children do not feel that they have nothing to do, more motivation to advance.

有時(shí)也要允許孩子自己做決定，即使孩子的決定很怪。實(shí)踐之后，他會(huì)自己做出結(jié)論，這是很好的學(xué)習(xí)和成長(zhǎng)機(jī)會(huì)。

Sometimes it is necessary to allow the child to make a decision, even if the child's decision is strange. After practice, he will make a conclusion himself, which is a good opportunity to learn and grow.

讓孩子與同伴多交往

Let the children communicate with their peers

寬容是在交往中培養(yǎng)起來(lái)的，孩子能理解別人的“不同”，才不會(huì)以自我為中心。與人友好相處，體會(huì)寬容帶來(lái)的快樂(lè)。

Tolerance is nurtured in communication. Children can understand the "difference" of others, and they do not focus on themselves. Be friendly with people and experience the joy of tolerance.

營(yíng)造幸福的家庭氛圍

Create a happy family atmosphere

一個(gè)和諧、健康、溫馨的家庭環(huán)境是孩子快樂(lè)的源泉。如果家長(zhǎng)整天吵架，不僅會(huì)讓孩子悶悶不樂(lè)，還會(huì)對(duì)他今后的生活產(chǎn)生負(fù)面影響。

A harmonious, healthy and warm family environment is the source of children's happiness. If a parent quarrels all day, it will not only make the child sulk, but also have a negative impact on his future life.

如何教育孩子這個(gè)話題，是關(guān)系到方方面面的。做父母也是需要學(xué)習(xí)的，想要教育出優(yōu)秀的孩子，更需要父母做出榜樣，甚至付出比一般人多的心血。但只要孩子養(yǎng)成好的習(xí)慣，后面的教育就會(huì)輕松很多。希望幼兒外教的建議能給新手爸媽帶來(lái)幫助。

How to educate the child on this topic is related to all aspects. Parents also need to learn, to educate good children, more need parents to make examples, and even pay more than the ordinary people. But as long as the children develop good habits, the education behind will be much easier. It is hoped that the advice of children's foreign teachers will help the novice parents.